Drama on My Facebook Page. Haters and Grammar Police.

Dear Haters and Grammer Police

Sweet. Baby. Jesus.

There’s drama on Midlife Margaritas FB page again. This time it’s over a little meme I shared from Snarky Breeders. So I’m throwing her under the bus too. lol Here’s the meme in question:


Just to be clear. I love ALL lifeguards. But THIS was just someone’s little sarcastic meme that made me chuckle. Now some people are losing their minds. lol I totally never (on purpose anyway) try to offend anyone. I have even had a few lifeguards message me that they thought this was hilarious. However, not everyone thinks it’s funny. So…


I want people to just chillax. It’s ok to snicker at inappropriate things. My blog and Social Media pages are just for fun. A place to hang out and giggle. If you don’t like something, here are some suggestions:

  1. Keep Scrolling. The next one might make you laugh.
  2.  Roll your eyes to the sky and say out loud, “what was she thinking posting this?”
  3.  If you can’t get past one stupid meme, find a tamer page to entertain you.
  4.  Leave a comment about how you feel about it. Disclaimer: other commenters may chime in and WWIII may start.

Side note: I won’t delete comments. Even nasty ones to or about me. Everyone has their say. UNLESS you use more profanity than I would, you get too nasty with another commenter, or you use weird sexual language that I don’t understand. Then shit gets deleted. My feelings do not get hurt. I have thick skin.

My blog is all about telling you about my life’s journey with humor and sarcasm. I can find humor in the worst places but what the hell. YOLO right? If I can help someone or make someone chuckle especially when they are having a bad day, then I have accomplished something. That’s my goal.

Everyone has their opinions. I have mine. But I chose to put my opinions on my page. I usually try to bite my tongue when other people post things on their own page that they should have thought twice about posting. But that’s their business and I have enough manners to leave well alone. And just scroll on by…

Love me or leave me. Or at least have a margarita with me!

Now for the Grammar Police. I am a college educated girl. One of my biggest peeves is GRAMMAR. However, I tend to make grammar typos more often the older I get. I will give anyone 100 points to find my typos and point them out! Go for it! Like the other night I posted a meme and knew I had something wrong but I was on my 5th White Russian and was like, F it! I’m posting it anyway! lol Here ya:


See the grammar error? lol Boy do you guys not miss anything?! lol That created a brew-ha-ha too. But I have thick skin…lol

Between my blog and social media accounts for the blog, I have around 12,000 fans right now. I wish I could make all of you smile and laugh and cry tears of joy. But that’s not humanly possible. The take-away here is that I wish I could. I love all of you. Even if you don’t like me. 🙂 So my wish for you today is:


Peace Love and Margaritas!

26 thoughts on “Drama on My Facebook Page. Haters and Grammar Police.

  1. I saw’d it…Umm I seened it…Umm I saw it…or did I cut my eyes to it? Never mind! I am too busy trying to enjoy life to worry about grammar or is it grammer? Who the H cares? Love ya no matter how you say it as I am more into the feels…doncha know?

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  2. I have found it prudent not to correct another person’s grammar. I make enough of my own errors to be picky about anyone else’s mistakes. Also, isn’t it funny how the haters hate, but they keep coming back? Girl, I’d love to share a margarita with you and laugh my ass off in person. Until that happens, I’ll just chuckle out loud while reading your posts in the comfort of my pajamas.

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  3. Does it help to know you’re not alone? I write humor and this winter people got snitty about a post I had on another page about how I ended up buying the same tennis shoes my teen already had. I thought it was funny that i didn’t even realize it; others thought I was a terrible mother/human being for suggesting I take mine back and that needed to put my foot down and tell my teen I was going to wear the shoes anyway. People are ridiculous!! Um, thanks for sharing your strong opinions of me and my parenting skills? WHATEV.

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  4. I’m accepting enrollment for “Understanding Sarcasm 101.” I’ll bring you in as our resident expert. Any meme that has a punchline which includes Chicken McNugget is hilarious. Oh shit, did I spell that right? 😎
    Keep on blogging and I’ll keep on drinking—hopefully we can share that pitcher of margaritas soon!

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  5. LOL!!! I seen’t it and I was no big deal. I swear I think some people just sit around waiting for something to offend them just so they can go on the attack.

    Don’t let ‘me get ya down. Just keep being you.

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  6. Beware the eagerly offended. They walk among us and wish to make us all as miserable as they are. Always remember that the Puritans outlawed Christmas for no other reason than it gave the people pleasure. Keep up the good work. cheers

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  7. I really enjoy your posts. It sounds like you are being way too hard on yourself. So so sorry people are giving you all this grief and aggravation. Try to ignore the haters

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