Ladies, Stop Trying to Have it All!

We’ve been taught all our lives that women can have it all. I call BS. We need to stop telling our daughters the same thing. Now hear me out before you start judging me and call me anti-feminist and shame me in my own blog comments. I hear it all the time. I see it… Continue reading Ladies, Stop Trying to Have it All!

Self-Care Isn’t Selfish, It’s Selfless!

Say the title 15 times real fast. HA. Well maybe just remember the title and make it your mantra! I think we all feel some sort of guilt for taking time for ourselves and we shouldn’t feel ANY guilt. Self-Care isn’t just for moms and dads. It’s a must for everyone. To keep your sanity,… Continue reading Self-Care Isn’t Selfish, It’s Selfless!

Check on Your Strong Friends. They Need You Too.

  When you hear about the suicide of people like Kate Spade or Anthony Bourdain, you have to stop and think why? They seemed to have it all. They seemed happy and had money and no worries. If it can happen to them…. We don’t know what goes on in the minds and lives of… Continue reading Check on Your Strong Friends. They Need You Too.

I Can’t Even Today.

OMG. The world is coming to an end. All those movies and shows about an¬†apocalyptic zombie world is more close to reality than it was just a few years ago. I can’t even watch the news anymore or read anything online. Is it true? Is it Fake News? Are the fact checkers even real? I… Continue reading I Can’t Even Today.

A Strong & Confident Woman is Not a Bitch.

I frequently tell my kids they don’t have to make everyone happy. Because it’s not a reality. Some people love being miserable and that’s ok too. You can try to cheer up someone who is down but eventually that person is in charge of their own happiness and has to make the decision to be… Continue reading A Strong & Confident Woman is Not a Bitch.

Going on a Rant. Warning: Golden Globes and Politics as Usual.

I know. I usually write the fun stuff and I promise to throw some humor in here. But I am so over the top annoyed I¬† have to get it off my chest. I try to stay away from the political stuff, and I know I am risking losing some of my readers over this… Continue reading Going on a Rant. Warning: Golden Globes and Politics as Usual.

Reinventing Yourself In Midlife: Drink More Margaritas!

There comes a time in most everyone’s life where you wonder, “what the hell do I do now?”. The kids are growing up and don’t need me as much, I hate my job, I’m bored with everything, Is God ignoring me?, I want to redecorate my house or move, who am I?, why can’t anyone… Continue reading Reinventing Yourself In Midlife: Drink More Margaritas!